Make Your Married Sex Life More Interesting With These Sex Toys

So many couples end up in unhappy marriages because they lack imagination and creativity in the sex department. The same three sex positions again and again can and will kill the passion. If you don’t want to end up like that, you need to know how to keep your sex life healthy in marriage. There are so many ways to spice things up and make everything exciting. And the best starting point for this journey is to master the play with sex toys. This is the easiest and least stressful trick that you can use to improve your sex life. Choosing the right sex toys will make a huge difference. That is why we created this short guide for the types of sex toys every couple should have in a pleasure chest hidden under their bed.

The Classic Magic Wand

The first thing you need to get your wife is not a dildo. That can be pretty scary, especially for a woman who has never tried sex toys before. The first thing you need is a vaginal vibrator. Most women, when they masturbate with toys, don’t use penetrative ones. They just use vibrators on their clitoris, and they’re content. But what you need is a vibrator that will convince your wife that bringing toys into the bedroom is the way to go. And there’s no better and more efficient toy for her than the magic wand. If your wife isn’t a squirter, trust me that the magic wand will change that.

A Nice Looking Dildo

Naturally, after playing with a magic wand for a month or two, you’ll want to buy a new toy. This is when you want to go for the dildo. But be careful with the choice. It’s best to let her choose the thing that will go inside her. If you’re not open enough to shop for sex toys together and you want to buy the dildo yourself, always go for a realistic one. Ladies are more comfortable with the toys that look the most like a real cock. And try not to go too big. An inch or two bigger than your cock will suffice.

Cuffs And A Blindfold

Both men and women want to experiment with BDSM. But we have such different takes on the kink. What men want is something similar to Kink.com, while the ladies want something that resembles 50 Shades of Grey. If you want to get into BDSM, you should take it slow. What you need is a blindfold and a pair of leather or material handcuffs. Don’t go for the metallic ones, as they can be quite uncomfortable. And don’t try real bondage. Just cuff her hands above her head or behind her back and have sex with her. You’ll have time to experiment with real bondage in the future, when you’re both more experienced. 

Vibrating Panties For Naughty Adventures

What many ladies fantasize about is wearing vibrating panties in public. You might not know it, but your wife most likely has this fantasy too. However, you should know when to introduce this toy. It’s best to do it before your anniversary or when you are on a nice vacation together. Present her with the panties before you go out to the restaurant or to some bar. And tell her that you’ll control her pleasure. Most vibrating panties come with apps these days, so it will be easy for you to offer her a stealth orgasm. And let me tell you that after you make her cum in public, she’ll rock your world once you get back to the bedroom. 

End Notes

These are just the safe choices you can make when you start building your pleasure chest. Little by little, you will get to experiment with kinkier toys. The whole secret is not to rush into things too quickly. And you’ll see that when your lady gets the taste of spice, she will be just as excited to try new toys as you are.